Why Do I Keep Repeating the Same Patterns in My Life?
You keep repeating the same patterns because the response is already taking shape before you realise you’re making a decision. Your system has already interpreted the situation, generated a feeling, and narrowed the range of responses that feel available. By the time you act, most of the process has already happened. That’s why understanding the pattern rarely stops it. You can recognise what’s happening and still find yourself doing the same thing again when it matters most.